I’m a girl from Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, and I’ve noticed that every home has different rules. Some families are really strict, while others are not. Many girls are allowed to live the life they want, but some are not. And it’s really sad that some people aren’t allowed to live their lives the way they want. But in our family, we’re allowed to do whatever we want. If we want to study, we can even go abroad, and if we want to have a job, we can get a job.
Your experiences in Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, seem incredibly moving and rich with cultural insights. Sarah's story is particularly poignant. Her yearning for a different life and the constraints she faces highlight the deep-seated issues related to gender roles and societal expectations in her community. It's touching how you were able to give her a moment of joy by letting her explore the van, something that might seem mundane to many but was a significant experience for her.
Your reflection on the privileges that come with being born in different circumstances is very insightful. It’s a stark reminder of the disparities that exist globally, where basic rights and opportunities can be vastly different depending on one's birthplace and societal context. Sarah's excitement and joy during your visit underline how impactful small gestures can be, especially when they provide a glimpse into a world of possibilities that she might not typically have access to
The males in Pashtun families need to be open-minded. They need to leave their stubbornness behind and move on with a good life. They need to stop the blood feuds because it doesn’t bring any good but always makes life even harder for the children.
I’m a girl from Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, and I’ve noticed that every home has different rules. Some families are really strict, while others are not. Many girls are allowed to live the life they want, but some are not. And it’s really sad that some people aren’t allowed to live their lives the way they want. But in our family, we’re allowed to do whatever we want. If we want to study, we can even go abroad, and if we want to have a job, we can get a job.
Your experiences in Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, seem incredibly moving and rich with cultural insights. Sarah's story is particularly poignant. Her yearning for a different life and the constraints she faces highlight the deep-seated issues related to gender roles and societal expectations in her community. It's touching how you were able to give her a moment of joy by letting her explore the van, something that might seem mundane to many but was a significant experience for her.
Your reflection on the privileges that come with being born in different circumstances is very insightful. It’s a stark reminder of the disparities that exist globally, where basic rights and opportunities can be vastly different depending on one's birthplace and societal context. Sarah's excitement and joy during your visit underline how impactful small gestures can be, especially when they provide a glimpse into a world of possibilities that she might not typically have access to
The males in Pashtun families need to be open-minded. They need to leave their stubbornness behind and move on with a good life. They need to stop the blood feuds because it doesn’t bring any good but always makes life even harder for the children.
So interesting to read this - especially today, on 8 March. I wonder if the social codes and life for women will ever change.
Merci Lisa, j'attendais avec impatience un nouveau récit de voyage au féminin de ta part. Comme toujours, tes mots sont très percutants. Bravo !
Very interesting. Love following your travels.
heartbreaking